My Latest Article in Psychology Today
Dear Readers,
I'm very proud to share that my latest article, "How Can We Stop Sexual Violence?", has been published in Psychology Today.
This is a subject that has weighed heavily on my heart for much of my life, both as a psychotherapist and as a mother.
Throughout my nearly four decades of clinical work, I've encountered the devastating impact trauma can have on individuals, families, and relationships. I've also seen how difficult it can be for survivors to speak openly about their experiences, particularly when they fear judgment, shame, or disbelief.
Sexual assault is never the victim's fault. Yet too often, the conversation shifts toward what a survivor could have done differently rather than holding the person responsible for the assault accountable.
In writing this article, I wanted to explore a question that I believe deserves far more attention: How do we begin preventing sexual violence before it happens?
I believe part of that answer begins in childhood.
From the earliest stages of development, children are learning about empathy, boundaries, respect, and accountability through the words and actions of the adults around them.
We teach these lessons when we respect a child's right to say no to unwanted affection. When we help them understand that another person's body belongs to that person. When we demonstrate compassion, acknowledge our mistakes, and show them that harmful actions have consequences.
And perhaps most importantly, when we teach our children that doing what is right matters more than simply going along with everyone else.
Of course, we cannot control every influence our children encounter. But we can be mindful of the messages we send and the behaviors we model.
My hope in writing this piece is to encourage meaningful conversations about the role we all play in creating a world where boundaries are respected, survivors are supported, and empathy is something we actively practice.
I would be so grateful if you took a few moments to read the article and share it with someone who might benefit from this conversation.
Read My Full Article in Psychology Today
How Can We Stop Sexual Violence?
Thank you, as always, for supporting my writing, my work, and the conversations that I believe can help us create meaningful change.
With love and gratitude,
Jessica Anne Pressler, LCSW
Psychotherapist & Author of Traitor Within
